Dowry Problem in India
Gandhi ji said:- 'Any young man who takes dowry fo getting married , disrespects his education, country and womanhood.' Our society is full of evil systems. One of those evil systems is dowry. Dowry is defined as the 'price paid by parents to get their daughters married as well for getting them the place in the family which they deserve.' Over the years cases of dowry harassment and cases of dowry deaths have multiplied. In Hindu marriage system, a system termed as 'kanyaddan' is performed in which the bride is given to the husband and in-laws along with huge sums of money, furniture, house, car, etc. or more precisely bride along with dowry. The dowry system has converted something as pure as marriage into a business transaction and the bride into a saleable commodity or a key to more money. Debts are taken so that the groom's family can be provided with a large dowry. This creates a burden on the bride's family. Girls begin to think of themselves as a burden on their families and accept spinsterhood as their fate or commit suicide. Dowry has also led to an increase in female feticide and female infanticide which has greatly affected the male-female ratio in the country. Heavy dowry is demanded for educated boys. This has ruined the lives of many brilliant girls. Brilliant, educated and economically independent girls cannot get married to so-called educated boys because their parents cannot provide their in-laws with a huge dowry demanded by them. Even after marriage such girls are tortured to bring in more money, and ultimately, they either commit suicide or lose their mental balance. People who believe in taking dowry say that dowry acts as a financial help to the newlyweds. They say that while marriage acts as a life insurance for girls, marriage acts as its premium. They also say that a girl who carries a respectable amount of dowry to her husband and in-laws feels confident while a girl who carries a less amount of dowry feels...
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